People marvel at what I've accomplished in the last few years. I've launched my coaching business full time, quit my 'day job' and moved myself across country - all successfully! I've always said I didn't feel like I was doing anything extraordinary. I just knew what I wanted and felt it was the only path to follow to live MY life MY way. Some days, it even felt selfish. I left behind a job I enjoyed, family, friends, a life I'd come to know; all to fulfill my dream of returning to Seattle and coaching full time. It was all for me. I'm sure many of my readers feel the same way. There is something you want from life, but something stronger is holding you back. Let's talk about that a little.
Absolutely, when I first told my family that I was going to return to Seattle, I met resistance, a LOT of resistance. It was unsettling and made me sad, even mad at times. But the one thing I never lost was my decision. I knew with all my heart and soul that the only life for me was back in Seattle; the only place I could live and be happy. Friends and coworkers supported my decision wholeheartedly even though it meant I'd be 3000 miles away. After all, they had somewhere to visit.
Challenges? Sure, there were plenty. Sell my house, give/sell away more than half my belongings to downsize. Find a place to live. Make ALL the decisions alone because I was doing this alone. Hire movers, pack belongings, say goodbye, make all transportation arrangements for me and my two cats. Yes, there were many challenges, but they all fell into place, one by one. With each new challenge met, I became more sure this was the right thing to do.
So, what about you? People tell me they can't do it because they're single. So was I. Or they tell me they aren't brave. I don't think I am either. I just knew that I have one life to live and I have to live it how and where I know I am happiest. It just takes soul-searching, knowing what you want from your life, doing the prep work to get there and making the commitment it will take to sustain you. You CAN do it!
Many of my clients are drawn to me because of my story. In me, they see the dreams they have come to fruition. an optimism and can-do attitude that if you dream it and believe it, you CAN achieve it! Go ahead. LIVE your dreams!
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Andrea's passion is to see you achieve your dreams. Whether you are a corporate leader seeking leadership development for your employees or an individual seeking life and career changes, she will coach you to success.